2019年10月21日 21:15:37|来源:国际在线|编辑:导医时讯
Any man who has dated Asian girls who live in the ed States, has witnessed the wrath, jealously and prejudice of American women towards Asian girls.The stereotypical has some merit: American women can’t compete against the Asians sexuality, American women feel threatened and some American women simply think Asians are stealing their men. These all bear some truth.If we frequent a typical American club, I have had my dates threaten by American women in the restroom. In time, Asian clubs sprung up in the ed States. At an Asian club, American women are welcome. I have never seen an American lady being threatened by Asians in a typical Asian club. It just isn’t their nature. The crowds in these clubs are usually Asian girls and American men.They met in the Philippines, got married, and came to the ed States with their military husband. Consequently, you’ll meet Asian girls in clubs who are married. If you mingle with Asian girls that frequent the clubs for any length of time, you will eventually meet ladies who are unfaithful.This unfaithfulness is how Filipina girls are branded as whores by American women. This doesn’t carry the same stigma for American women who may do the same. Hypocrisy is always evident when behaviors of the two cultures are compared.Asian dating sites have sprung up all over the internet. Some of these sites try to exploit the Asians sexuality. However, there are many Asian girls who want to meet a sincere gentleman for a relationship.As attractive as Asian girls may be, American men are also captivated by the Asians behavior towards men. A man’s dream of having a wife who wants to please him, appreciates his love and treasures his efforts in making a home seems to have been found by American men in the Asian culture.You’ll hear American men call these values traditional values because at one time these were the values that held the American family together.In turn, these men are happy, want to provide for their wife and have no desire to look elsewhere for this appreciation.It’s chemistry that once prevailed many years ago in the ed States and has been lost in the myriad of women rights in American society.Why do Filipina women want to marry a foreigner from another country? I’m not going to argue the fact that these ladies want a better life. It’s probably true.I will argue that most women, no matter the country, want to marry in to a better life. Again, it is the hypocrisy of which you are that makes a behavior negative or not. Most women, in the ed States, need to look in a mirror before judging ladies from other cultures. Besides wanting a better life, most Asian ladies want better treatment.Here in the ed States, most men come to expect a lady isn’t required to serve him, to want to please him, and love him for who he is. When an Asian girl does, his appreciation is certain.For an Asian lady, the man doesn’t have to be super rich or look like a movie star, just treat her well and show his love. It’s a merry-go-round with respect and love as its focal point. She wants to please him, he loves her for pleasing him, and she loves him for showing he appreciates her love and so on.All the above words, statements and my observations have their exceptions. There is no doubt; there are bad men in every country. There is no doubt that some women only are in it for the money or to get a free pass to the ed States.If a few instances define the standards, then just getting a marriage license in the ed States should have a warning imprinted in gold. No matter if a couple met through the internet or at the neighborhood church, you have your share of scandals and mistreatment.The last culture of experts that needs to be giving advice about how to meet and marry a woman is the ed States “is there any other country whose divorce rate is higher?The Philippines and Far Eastern countries do not condone online dating sites. For that matter, it is against the law. I’m not going to e their law here, but it has to do with moral issues. Again hypocrisy!I started this article to comment on why a lot of American women despise Asian girls. Not all American women, but a lot. But the discrimination doesn’t stop there. It is evident in the media, politics and indeed in their own country.The people, who are forgotten, are the couples themselves. Why not just ask them? If two people who found each other are happy, in love and want to be together, why the media and politician think does they know better. Take your hatred, your narrow minded views and negative publicity elsewhere and let us find love “even if we find it on the internet. 凡和亚洲女孩约会的美国男人,都目击过美国女人眼里的愤怒,这就是美国女人对亚洲女孩的嫉妒与偏见。这种模式的优势是:美国女人在性魅力方面无法与亚洲人匹配,美国女人感到恐慌,甚至一些人单纯地认为亚洲人在抢他们的男人。这些当然也有点道理。如果我们时常出入美国俱乐部,亚洲女孩就可能会在卫生间被美国女人恐吓,我女朋友就有过此经历。与此同时,亚洲俱乐部在美国兴起。在亚洲俱乐部,美国女人 也是受欢迎的,在亚洲俱乐部,我从来没有见过一个美国女人被亚洲女孩恐吓的现象。亚洲人的天性并不会这样做。在这些俱乐部的人,通常都是些亚洲女孩和美国 男人。他们在菲律宾相遇,并结婚了,然后与他们的丈夫来到美国。因此,在俱乐部你会碰到已婚的亚洲女人。如若你把亚洲女孩当作是那种经常出入酒吧的不良女人时,你可能最终会遇到一些不忠的女人。正因为不忠,菲律宾女孩被美国女人烙上娼妓的烙印。而如果这种情况发生在美国女人身上,她们便不必承受此骂名。 两种行为文化一对比,伪善就显露出来了。亚洲交友配对网站在整个网络世界兴起了。一些网站试着用亚洲女孩的性感来吸引点击率。然而,确实存在一些亚洲女孩寻求一段真挚的感情。亚洲女孩极具魅力,美国男人会被她们的行为举止而着迷。男人梦想着有一个妻子,她会想着如何取悦他,对他的爱和为家所作的努力而感恩,而这些,他们只有在亚洲的文化中能够感受得到。你将听到美国男人把这种价值观称为传统价值观,因为曾经一度,这种价值观与美国家庭息息相关。那时,这些男人很幸福,竭尽地满足妻子需要的一切,也不曾有去别处寻求刺激的想法。很多年前,男女间的化学反应曾经在美国风靡一时,但最终在美国消失,没落在女权运动中。为什么菲律宾女人想嫁给异国的人呢?对于“这些女人想过得好一些”之说,我不想去争论这点。或许这是事实。我所要争论的是,大多数女人,无论来自哪个国家 都想嫁出去,过更好的生活。其次,不论你是否把问题看得消极,你都是伪善的。在美国的大多数女人,在论断其他国家的女士时需要先反省一下。除了想拥有更好 的生活外,大多数亚洲女士想要更好的待遇。在美国,大多数男人并不指望有个女人可以伺他,愿意取悦他,并爱那个真实的他。但若一个亚洲女孩这么做了,他欣赏她也就不足为奇了。对亚洲女孩来说,男人不需要太有钱或看起来像个影视明星,她们只希望他们能对她们好,能一直爱她们就够了。它就像是以尊重与爱为轴的旋转木马。她想取悦他,他爱她的取悦,并且她喜欢他向她展示自己的爱。。。以上所有的话,所作的陈述与我的观察都又例外的情况,这是毫无疑问的。每个国家都又坏人。不可否认,一些女人嫁到美国只是为了钱或是拿到一张免费的绿卡。如果几个例子就对这些标准给出了定义,那么在美国取得结婚执照本该有严重警告。不管一对夫妇是在网上认识的或是在附近的教会,这些丑闻和虐待,你也有份。在“怎样遇到一个女人,又怎样跟她结婚”这个问题上,能给出建议的文化专家只是美国。“还有哪个国家离婚率比它高的呢?菲律宾及远东国家反对网上交友配对网站。因为那样是违反法律的。他们的法律在这我就不引了,但它牵扯到道德的问题。再次又与伪善有关!我着手写这篇文章意在阐述为什么许多美国女人轻视亚洲女孩。我说的不是所有的美国女人,但确实有非常多。并却这种歧视也不会消失。无论是媒体,政治等方面都表现得很明显,确实是发生在他们自己的国家。人啊,他们已然忘记,自己也是成对的。为什么不问问他们呢?如果两个人觉得他们在一起能开心,并且相爱,希望在一起,为什么媒体和政治家觉得他们会比当事 人更了解呢。把你的敌意,狭隘的思想观念和消极的公众价值观通通都收起来吧,让我们找到真爱,即使是在网上寻求的爱。 /200808/45963Calm Down! Tips for Regaining Your Cool Quickly镇定下来!使你快速镇定下来的几个小贴士Tear ducts. They’re not my friends. I don’t send them Christmas cards. I don’t invite them to parties. Still, unbidden and unwanted, tears have a tendency to well up in my eyes whenever I’m having a difficult conversation with someone. And, though it’s quite rare, I’ve been known to totally blow a gasket or two. Let’s face it, that red-faced, exploding-at-the-seams angry look isn’t exactly fashion forward. 眼泪。是我不喜欢的。我不希望在圣诞节看到眼泪。我也不希望在聚会上看到眼泪。然而,有时,每当我与某人有不愉快的会话时,眼泪就会自觉不自觉地在眼眶中打转。尽管这种现象不多见,但是人们还是认为我很生气。要让我们知道的是,脸红脖子粗、看上去很气愤的样子是不受欢迎。Emotions are good things. They help steer our choices and, when worn on our sleeves, give others clues to how we’re feeling. But sometimes emotions—such as traitor tears, a red-hot temper, or panic-inducing anxiety—are a downright pain in the rear. When high emotions get in the way of your professionalism, prevent you from effectively communicating, or cause your mascara to create a raccoon effect, it’s time to take control. 情绪是个好东西。它们有助于我们做出选择。当我们累坏了的时候,很容易使人看出我们的感受。但是,有时候,情绪------比如出卖我们的眼泪,非常激动地情绪、或是那种诱导恐慌的焦虑------都一目了然说明了背后的痛苦。当你的这种情绪影响到你的职业、这种情绪不能使你有效地与人沟通、或是这种情绪使你的睫毛膏产生了一种浣熊效应的时候,你就应该要学会控制你的情绪了。Keeping Cool in the Heat of the Moment在最要爆发时,学会保持镇静。As calm as we may try to keep our lives, there’s one thing that’s for sure. @#!amp; happens. Grocery clerks put bottles of orange juice on top of egg cartons. Speed-demon drivers cut you off on the highway. Checks bounce when your significant other forgets to write a withdrawal in the register. Bosses assign impossible late-night tasks. And it’s important to keep yourself together when everything falls apart. Here’s how: 有一点是毫无疑问的,在生活不论发生什么样的事情,我们都要尽可能地保持镇静。商店里的售货员们将桔汁水瓶摆放在应该摆放鸡蛋的纸箱中;在高速路上,那些喜欢开快车的人切断了你的路;当你的另一半在登记簿上忘记写撤销两个字的时候,你的票又一次被递送过来;老板们要你完成那些即便是你干到深夜都不可能完成的工作等等情况。 当每件事情都不对劲的时候,重要的是,你自己要保持镇静。下面是一些具体做法: /201102/126523

摘要:由于猫生性狡猾,且喜欢在夜间四处游荡,中世纪的欧洲人将它们与巫术与妖魔联系在一起,对它们怀有恐惧和仇视。Throughout much of the Middle Ages, cats were feared and hated. Since they are very sly and in the habit of moving about in the darkness at night, people used to associate them with witches and the evil spirits. Cats were treated cruelly, and even burned together with witches. People used to believe that cats took away a baby's breath by magic. Even now when mothers see a cat near their baby, they take the cat away because they think that the cat often lies on the baby, and then the baby can't breathe and dies. It was a general belief that witches and evil spirits especially liked taking the form of a black cat. Because of this belief, black cats came gradually to be looked upon as the cause of misfortune and ill luck. A popular idea is that if people see a black cat crossing the road in front of them, something unfortunate will happen to them. Some superstitious people believe that killing the cats does not necessarily mean killing the witches, for a witch can take on the body of a cat for nine times. It is said that Napoleon saw a black cat before the battle of Waterloo. He lost the battle, and the British won. Probably for this reason, the black cat is unlucky on the continent, but in Britain, it is lucky. /200906/72268

Being ladylike doesn#39;t mean being girly, weak and submissive - you must show intelligence, inner strength and impeccable manners. If that sounds a little too much for you don#39;t worry, Videojug#39;s here to show you how to be graceful, gracious and get what you want.做淑女并不代表要扮萝莉、软弱或顺从,你应该表现出智慧内在的力量和无可挑剔的行为规范。听上去有点复杂?别担心,下面我们就来告诉你,如何成为一名理想中优雅、亲切的淑女。Step 1: Dress the part第一步:注意外表Channel you inner glamour queen: think Jackie Onassis, Grace Kelly and Natalie Portman. Your clothes must fit, show off your shape, and be spotlessly clean and pressed, so out with the jeans, sloppy tees and Uggs and in with the skirts and high heels. Don#39;t display too much flesh, and for jimini#39;s sake, wear knickers - koochy flashing is not a ladylike pastime.看看那些内在魅力无限的女王们:杰奎琳·肯尼迪、格蕾丝·凯莉、娜塔莉·波特曼。你的着装必须合身,凸显出你的身材,而且一定要干净无瑕、熨烫整齐,所以牛仔裤、宽大的T恤和雪地靴就不要考虑了,裙装和高跟鞋才是王道。别穿的太暴露,穿短裤可一点儿也不淑女。Grooming is also crucial - in every area. Nails, hair and make up have to be immaculate. It#39;s high maintenance, but as Helena Rubinstein said,;there are no ugly women, only lazy ones.;仪表也很重要,不管是在哪一部分。指甲、头发和妆容必须要洁净无瑕。虽然打理起来很费神,但正如赫莲娜·鲁宾斯坦所说的,“没有丑女人,只有懒女人。”Step 2: Encourage Chivalry第二步:鼓励绅士风度When you are with your young gentleman, hold back a little as you approach the door, this will force him to open it, then naturally hold it open for you. Remember to thank him demurely as you go through.当你和年轻男士同行而且来到门前时,别急着开门。这会迫使男士上前去开门,并很自然地帮你把门拉住。这时候别忘了优雅地说声谢谢。When it comes to sitting down, use the same tactic. If he takes his chair without holding yours out, stand just long enough for him to notice his mistake, then sit, keeping your knees together at all times of course. Smile, sulking is for petulant teenagers, he will be relieved you have brushed over his embarrassment and won#39;t forget again.当你们准备落座时,也可以采取相同的策略。如果他只抽出了自己的椅子而忽略了你的,你只需要站在那不动,直到他意识到自己的错误。坐下以后始终保持双膝并拢,并对他报以微笑。只有任性的小年轻才会生闷气。你对他的失误一笑而过会让他倍感释怀,下次再也不会忘记了。Step 3: Talk the talk第三步:注意言谈All your good work could come undone if your mouth runs away with you, a lady doesn#39;t divulge too much about herself or talk coarsely about the latest sexual position. Only swear if you absolutely must, try replacing offensive words with words like ;Drat;, or ;Heavens to Betsy;.如果你管不住自己的嘴,那以上所有的努力都会白费。一位淑女绝不会对自己的事情夸夸其谈,也不会俗不可耐地去议论花边轶事。只有在绝对必要时才会轻声咒骂,而且要用“见鬼了”“老天啊”这样的词语来代替那些脏话。Listen carefully and flatter him when appropriate. Never play dumb, if you don#39;t agree with his opinions say so, but with a smile as you state your reasons to curb getting drawn into an argument.要仔细聆听他人,并在合适的时候加以褒奖。千万别装聋作哑,如果你不同意他人的看法,说出来就好,但在表达自己的理由时记得面带微笑,这样就可以避免陷入争论。Don#39;t slouch, fidget, or drink too much - it#39;s not a good look.不要无精打采、坐立不安,也别让自己喝醉:这都会影响你的形象。Ultimately the key to being treated and respected as a lady is to be cool, calm and in control at all times. And it takes a lot of balls to pull that off.最后,想要成为一名公认的且受人尊重的淑女,关键在于冷静、淡定,并且在任何情况下都能自我控制。想要做到这些还需要多加修炼。 /201206/187389

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