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恋爱是两个人的事,一个人单方面付出那只能算是交情。女人天生对爱情就没有主动性,这让也是让女人找不到男朋友的一大心理因素。下面看看这八大心理,单身的你是否存在呢?1、听天由命的她  她的理由:“我碰不到另一半”Fatalistic type:I haven't met him yet /200911/89191

How often do you have a really strong gut instinct and it proves to be wrong? How often do you override that instinct and then kick yourself later on? My guess would be that if you’re anything like the people that come to me for life coaching the answers are hardly ever and always.Everybody knows intuitively that they have solid instincts. I have never met anybody either professionally or socially that says. “My gut feeling is terrible, I’m always getting in a mess by listening to myself, what can I do about it?” How weird is that? It seems to me it’s a universal truth.Although at this point I have to confess I only know a small percentage of people when we look at it from a global perspective. In fact, we are probably talking about 0.000005% of the population; so statistically speaking it’s about as accurate as a blind baseball pitcher with Meniere’s disease.Having said that, I’m prepared to bet that you don’t disagree with me. In fact, I’ll go as far to say that if you can honestly say you believe your gut instinct lets you down on a regular basis, drop me an e-mail and I’ll mail you a copy of my book with instructions on how to operate it, because you’re going to need them.The conscious human mind can only deal with 7 + or – 2 pieces of information at once. Until you this sentence you almost certainly aren’t aware of your left foot. But hey, presto, now you are! Way to go on shifting your awareness like a Zen Master. If you lost your foot in a freak fairground accident last week I apologize for my lack of tact. I hope you can forgive me and please accept my best wishes for a speedy recovery hoppy.The fact is, you have to constantly delete information from your conscious mind, otherwise you’d go into sensory overload. Try and do it now if you have any doubt. Place your awareness in your right hand, now your left hand too. Now move to your feet and remain aware of your hands. Easy? Maybe, but that’s still only 4, so try thinking about what your lower back feels like without letting your attention move from your hands. By now you will be starting to struggle, but if you’re not keep going and you soon will be.Think of your conscious mind as being like the RAM on your computer. It does lots of good stuff and it’s nice to have around and all that, but hey c’mon, it’s no hard drive! That is like the difference between your conscious and unconscious mind.Your unconscious mind can do lots of stuff easily without you ever having to intervene. I presume your heart is beating, your food is being digested, and you do not have to remember to blink your eyes or maintain your blood pressure, right? If not you maybe dead, so stop ing now and call for an ambulance and/or an undertaker.What happens when you get a strong gut feeling is that your unconscious mind is trying to tell you what it thinks in the only way it knows how, with feelings. It can’t talk to you because it’s unconscious, hence the rather obvious name. It has done lots of calculations, looked at all the permutations, given it serious consideration and is now shouting “Whoa there big fella, it aint a great idea to poke that skunk with a stick” Of course the ‘shout’ can manifest itself in any number of ways. You may get sweaty palms, a nauseous feeling or just a sense of something not being quite right.So what do most people do when they get a strong gut feeling?That’s right, they override it. Because it doesn’t make logical sense on the surface, skunk poking notwithstanding, it tends to get dismissed. A feeling is just that, a feeling, it can be hard to put into words. When we can’t explain logically why we think something is a bad or even for that matter a good idea, we can tend to either ignore it completely or use faulty logic to dismiss it out of hand.Some people (kinesthetics) find to very easy to tune into their feelings, but truly kinesthetic people account for less than 15% of the population. If you’re not one of the lucky few then you’ll have to pay extra special attention. Tune in to your body more often and start to recognize the patterns an when it’s trying to tell you something.If your unconscious is saying don’t take that job, go on that date, poke that skunk - take heed. It knows what it’s talking about and it has your best interests at heart. The alternative it to disregard it as some weird nebulous feeling that’s come out of nowhere and almost certainly live to regret it. /200901/60649

A friend asks me “Why Chinese don't go Dutch?” So I want to regard this question as the topic and write an article. As everyone knows, Occidental will go Dutch while having a meal in the restaurant. But Chinese don't go Dutch. Chinese will pay the bill and check out generously. Occidental don't often entertain guests; but Chinese often invite friend to dinner. A lot of Occidentals feel puzzled to this question。   一个朋友问我:“为什么中国人不是各付各的钱?”所以我要写一篇文章把这个问题作为关注的焦点。  正像每个人都知道的那样,西方人在饭店吃饭往往都是AA制,而中国人却慷慨地把别人的也一起给付了。西方人不常款待客人,而中国人却经常邀请朋友吃饭。许多西方人对此感到困惑不解。 /200912/90823

As a new father, I quickly learned the true meaning of maternal instinct. Late one night, I was summoned to the hospital to attend to one of my patients. I quietly got up in the dark but tripped over a toy and crashed to the floor. As I lay there rubbing my sore leg, my wife slept on.   Then there was a faint cough from the nursery. Debra leaped out of bed, running past me down the hall to our baby's room. When she returned, she looked at me and said, "What on earth are you doing on the floor?" 刚刚作了父亲,我就很快体会到母性本能的涵义了。一个深夜,医院召我去照应一位病人。我悄悄地在黑暗中起了床,但一只脚绊在一个玩具上,扑通一声摔在地板上。我倒在那里,揉着疼痛的腿,妻子毫无反应地继续睡着。   突然,婴儿房传来轻微的咳嗽声。戴拉跃下床来,从我身边跑过,下了客厅到我们婴儿的房间。她返回来时,看了看我说:“你究竟在地板上干什么?” /201109/153072

美国学生与中国学生教育的十大区别1、考上大学 美国学生为了能从大学毕业,上了大学才开始好好学习,中国学生为了考上大学而拼命学习,上了大学就不再好好学习。(注:美国大学“宽进严出”;中国大学“严进宽出”) 2、向老师发问 在课堂上,美国学生为了装懂而向老师发问,还认为坐的横七竖八才能更好与老师交流。 中国学生则为了装懂而不向老师发问,还认为坐的端端正正是对老师的尊敬。 3、解题方法 如果老师给出同一道题目:“现在是12点整,时针和分针正好重合,请问要经过多长时间时针和分针才能再次重合?”老师语音刚落,美国学生的反应是不约而同的拨动腕上的手表,用这种其实很聪明的“笨方法”,看时针和分针什么时候才能再次重合。而在场的中国学生立即拿出纸和笔,埋头列出一大堆公式并开始计算。 4、受教育方式 美国学生的受教育方式是“放羊”,十分轻松,所以他们大多数喜欢异想天开,想象力无比丰富。 中国学生的受教育方式是一种“填鸭”,辛苦的很,题海战术他们不怕,怕就怕那种脑筋急转弯的问题,因为有的时候,他们确实转不过弯来。 5、数学头脑 美国学生一般不大有数学头脑,不得不长期依赖电子计算器。 中国学生都是数学天才,口算心算水平一流。 如果中国学生告诉美国学生,我们能够不用计算机做四位数的乘除法,甚至能够徒手开平方根,那美国学生看中国学生的眼神,肯定像看见了撒谎的小木偶的长鼻子一样。 6、零用钱 美国学生的父母说:“我们不得不通知你,你这个月的零用钱已经超出预算了。去,把车库打扫一下,把游泳池刷一刷,或把家里打扫一遍,我们就可以在给你一些零用钱。” 中国学生的父母说:“零用钱用完了吗?没钱就自己到抽屉里去拿。” 7、旅游 美国学生对自己的父母说:“我已经攒够钱了,我要去旅游了。” 中国学生对自己的父母说:“我要去旅游了,请给我一笔钱。” 8、女朋友 美国学生把女朋友带回家自豪的对父母说:“这是我女朋友。” 中国学生面对着自己已经被撬开的日记,看着气急败坏的父母,心虚的说:“我没有早恋·····” 9、新赛车 美国学生喜欢夸耀自己:“瞧,这是我自己组装的新车。” 中国学生喜欢夸耀自己的长辈:“看,这是我爸爸给我买的新车。” 10、自己做主 美国学生的父母对他们说:“亲爱的,你已经长成一个男子汉了,自己的事情应该自己做主,不要老是依赖我们给你提意见。” 中国学生的父母对他们吼到:“放肆!翅膀长硬了是不是?敢把我的话当耳旁风?告诉你,就算你长出胡子,还是我们儿子,还得听我们的。”美国教育体制和中国教育体制的区别中国学校对孩子进行考试,目的是为了发现问题,淘汰之.美国学校对孩子进行考试,目的是为了发现问题,改善之.美国学校的考试机制是学什么,考什么.中国学校的考试机制是考什么,学什么.学什么,考什么,是考试为了教育务.考什么,学什么,是教育为了考试务.这就是中国与美国教育的不同之处! /200803/31608

Over 14,000 Santas march for world recordMore than 14,000 people dressed as Santa Clauses paraded in Portugal's city of Porto on Sunday to try to set a new world record for the largest gathering of Santas and raise money for charity.Despite cold weather and drizzling rain, the crowd in red-and-white hats and jackets, including scores of women and children with fake white beards, strolled through the city streets singing songs and dancing in the annual parade that started in the afternoon and continued after dark."It's not just a gathering of people at the time of the year when people normally get together, but it is also a social event to bring the warmth of Christmas to those who don't always have it," Vitor Ferreira, one of the organizers of the event, told reporters.Every Santa, or Pai Natal (Father Christmas) as he is known in Portugal, who took part in the parade donated 1 euro to buy presents for the needy children in Porto, Portugal's second-largest city, Ferreira said.He said 17,400 people had signed up to take part, although bad weather prevented some from parading. Still, over 14,200 showed up in the end, which organisers claimed to be record, according to RTP national television channel.According to the Guinness World Records web site (http://www.guinnessworldrecords.com), the previous world record for the largest gathering of Santas was set last year in Derry City, Northern Ireland, where a total of 12,965 people took part dressed up as Santa or Santa's helpers. /200812/58913

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