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三明市解扎医院This is not an easy article to write. I have been hurt by someone very close to me and I know that I need to forgive that person, but it is easier said than done. Intellectually, I know that until I can forgive, I will stew in my resentment and hurt - harming myself, not the person who hurt me. I could seek revenge, but countering a wrong with a wrong is… well, wrong.What to do?As I reside in the limbo between true forgiveness and painful hurt, I struggle with the tug-of-war between heart and head. I won’t seek revenge, but I am also not y to forgive despite the realization that forgiving is precisely what I have to do to stop hurting. People don’t ask to be hurt, but the offended must be the ones to initiate the resolve.Forgiveness is the pill we must swallow when we suffer from hurt inflicted by others. We must move past the feelings of a hurt-felt heart and use our reason, our mind, to guide us to healing. Age, maturity, teaches us to “let it go,” “forgive and forget,” but sound reason does not manifest a quick cure. It does, however, keep us from making a bigger mistake. The mind must win the tug-of-war between heart and head. To do otherwise, we would be hurting ourselves even more.How do we make the head win?When our heart and mind are conflicted, thinking more about the offense will only exasperate the situation; we need to distract the mind. Our thoughts need to move on, get off-track, and the best way to distract the mind is to busy the hands.Performing tasks like cooking, gardening, car maintenance, writing, anything that requires the mind to think about what the hands are doing will give our heart and head the time to eclipse the pain and coalesce into a more productive, positive realm. Manual exercise restores the balance to life necessary to heal. The sooner we become productive, the quicker we will be able to forgive. Busying the hands also gives us the time to move past the initial harm. We still may feel hurt, but the hurt won’t feel as deep. The urge for revenge will pass; the head eventually wins.If you’ve been hurt and find yourself in the tug-of-war between heart and head it may be helpful to take the Forgiveness Test created by Dr. Susan Brown as part of her doctoral dissertation at Fuller Theological Seminary. It is a 14-question, multiple-choice test which helps to identify personal thoughts and behaviors regarding forgiveness. I took the test and discovered I’m half-way there.What I neglected to consider (as I wallowed in my self-pity) was the source of the problem. Question 13, “I looked for the source of the problem and tried to correct it,” caused a light bulb to go off in my head. Again, the heart was clouding my rational thought. The test made me realize that if I don’t want to be hurt by this person again, I should look for the source of the problem and work to correct it. Being hurt involves two people. Forgiveness is what I do, but that is only half the solution. Resolving the source of the hurt involves both of us. That is what’s necessary for true reconciliation and lasting peace...the ability to truly forgive and forget, forever.I’m glad I took the test and I’m glad I wrote this article. I took the time to busy my hands. I don’t feel as hurt now as I did when I began writing. I’m getting closer to true forgiveness and realize I have more work to do before all is well again. In the end, my head won, but so did my heart. 这是一篇难以书写的文章.曾经,我被我很亲密的人伤害过,我知道我得原谅他"她,但这一切说起来很容易,做起来好难.理智上我知道我若不能原谅,伤害我自己的是我内心的怨恨与烦恼,而不是那个人.我曾想过报复,但这只是错上加错…..是的,是错的.要做什么?当我徘徊在真正原谅与痛苦伤害的边缘时,我正经历着内心与头脑之间激烈的斗争.我不会去报复,但我也没有做好去原谅的准备,虽然事实上原谅是停止我伤痛的最佳办法.人们都不想被伤害,但是受伤了的人就必须找办法治疗.当我们被人家伤害时,原谅是我们必须选择去用的良药.我们必须消除内心那些彻心的痛楚,在我们的理智与意识的指引下治疗我们的心灵.经历过伤害的人告诉我们要“让它随风而去”,要“原谅然后忘记”,但这不是我们能进行快速治疗的充分理由.然而,它可以防止我们犯下更大的错误.头脑的意识必须赢得这场内心与头脑的斗争的胜利,否则,我们只会把自己伤害得更深……如何做才能是头脑获胜?当我们的内心与头脑意识发生冲突时,过多地想着攻击对方反而把事情弄得更槽.我们需要分散我们的注意力,我们的思想必须得沿着轨道动起来,而分散注意力的好方法是让自己的双手忙起来.做一些烹饪,护理一下花园,保养一下汽车,写一些东西.做任何需要我们意识去指导的事情,这会让我们的内心与头脑有一定的时间去冲淡痛楚,合并更多积极有效的思想领域.身体运动能恢复生活的平衡,这是身心恢复所需要的.我们越快恢复效率,我们就能更快地去原谅.使自己的双手忙起来也能给予我们时间去除最初的伤痛.也许我们仍感到痛苦,但那痛苦已经没有原来那么深了.报复的冲动没有了,头脑会最终获得胜利.假如你被伤害了并发现自己正处于内心与头脑的斗争中,你可以尝试做一下由Susan Brown士在福乐神学院做士论文时研发的原谅测试,这对你是有用的.测试有14道多项选择题,它能帮助你分清关于原谅的个人思想和行为.当我做完测试时,我发现我已经成功了一半了.我不想去考虑是我问题的根源,因为我完全沉浸在自怜之中.第13道题目“我寻找了问题的根源并设法去改正了它”像一个小灯泡照耀在我的脑海里.再一次,内心笼罩着我的理智思想.这个测试让我明白,如果我不想再一次被那个人伤害,我就必须找到问题的根源,然后努力去改正它.伤害是相互的.原谅是我需要做的,但这只是解决问题的一半而已.解决伤害的根源需要两个人去努力.这是真正的和解与永远的友好所需要的……需要一种能力去真正地原谅,然后永远忘却.我很高兴我做了这个测试并写下这篇文章.我花了时间让自己的双手忙了起来,我没有像刚写作时那么痛苦了.我离真正原谅更加近了.我意识到.在完全恢复前有许多事情要我去做.到最后,我的头脑获胜了.然而,我的内心也是如此. /200806/41879罗源县排卵监测多少钱 福州哪个医院看不孕不育最好

福州总院做输卵管疏通Chinese women want to change the shape of their faces, while men want straighter noses, a recent survey by the Beijing-based Horizon Research Consultancy Group has found.The survey polled nearly 1,600 people aged 18 and 55 from Shanghai, Tianjin and Shenzhen.The results were given on the independent polling company's website.Almost 33 percent of women wanted to improve the contours of their faces, the survey found. Eyelid surgery was second most popular at 29 percent. A face shaped like a goose egg and double eyelids were favorite, it showed.Fat removal from the stomach and waist ranked third, followed by liposuction of the legs. Nose sculpting came last among the top five most sought-after procedures for women.A Beijing-based cosmetic surgeon surnamed Huang said women wanted to look more Caucasian.They particularly wanted to look leggy, busty and skinny, he said.In comparison, men were less concerned about fat and only 7.5 percent would consider liposuction, the survey said.Nearly 45 percent of men said they wanted to straighten their noses to give them a more masculine look.Nearly 33 percent said they would consider double eyelid surgery, followed by cosmetic improvement of the teeth and face shaping.Many men did not want their partner to have breast implants, even though women did it to please them, cosmetic surgeon Huang said.There are about 1 million plastic surgery operations performed every year in China, according to official estimates. 北京零点调查咨询集团近日开展的一项调查发现,中国女性最希望改变自己的脸型,而男性则希望自己的鼻子更挺拔。该项调查在上海、天津、深圳开展,共有近1600人参加,年龄在18岁至55岁之间。调查结果已在零点调查公司的网站上公布。调查显示,近33%的女性希望自己的脸型有所改善;其次,29%的女性想做双眼皮手术。鹅蛋脸和双眼皮最受青睐。在女性最想做的五种整形术中,腰腹抽脂名列第三,然后是腿部抽脂,塑鼻整形位居最后。北京一位姓黄的美容师说,女性希望自己的外表更像白种人。他说,女性尤为希望自己双腿修长、胸部丰满、身材苗条。相反,男性对胖瘦并不那么在意,只有7.5%的人表示会考虑做抽脂手术。近45%的男性想把鼻子整得更挺拔,因为这样能让他们看起来更有男人味。近33%的人表示他们会考虑做双眼皮手术,其次是矫正牙齿和重塑脸型。黄整形师说,很多男性不希望他们的配偶隆胸,即使女性这样做是为了取悦他们。据官方统计数据,中国每年的整形手术数量达到约100万例。 /200803/30012 When it comes to cracking the Asian market — and particularly China — numerous American tech companies have tried and failed or never got their foot in the door in the first place. Now that same dynamic may befall fast-growing American apps.无数的美国科技公司在进军亚洲市场——尤其是中国——的时候遭遇过挫折,有些根本就没能踏过门槛。现在,同样的遭遇可能会降临到快速增长的美国应用上。Snapchat, a social media app that has become popular for letting people send short s and images that disappear quickly, is facing a clone in Asia that has been downloaded 30 million times since last September, writes Paul Mozur. Made by the South Korean internet company Naver, the clone, called Snow, is like Snapchat in many ways, with features including ephemeral messages and s and various camera filters.据孟宝勒(Paul Mozur)的报道,因可以发送“阅后即焚”的短视频和图片而日趋流行的社交媒体应用Snapchat,在亚洲正遭遇山寨产品。韩国互联网公司Naver的一个名叫Snow的应用,在很多方面酷似Snapchat,也有转瞬即逝的消息、视频,以及各种滤镜的功能,自去年9月以来,Snow的下载量已达3000万。Snow is different from Snapchat in one major respect. Unlike Snapchat, which is blocked in China, Snow is available there.两者有一个重要区别。Snapchat在中国遭到屏蔽,但Snow没有。Snow’s ascendancy in Asia illustrates the hurdles facing Snapchat, which has been focused on more general growth worldwide and not specifically on any single continent. By the time Snapchat gets around to more closely targeting local audiences in South Korea, Japan, China and elsewhere in Asia, it may find the market somewhat sewn up by a company that largely copied what it does.Snow在亚洲的优势显示了Snapchat面临的障碍。后者看重的是全球范围内的总体增长,没有特别侧重于某个大陆。等到Snapchat开始更多地针对韩国、日本、中国和亚洲其他地区的受众时,它可能会发现,市场已经被某个大幅抄袭了它的产品所占据。 /201607/453326罗源县孕检公立医院福州去那精子检查最好




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