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2019年07月18日 08:30:45 | 作者:好互动 | 来源:新华社
这是一个不信任爱情的时代,可是,好多人在忙着谈恋爱,空虚得需要一个人来填充爱情就廉价成了一种可以消除寂寞的工具 当一份爱情缺乏了信任之后,那么所有的解释都会变成一种借口,所有的玩笑都将变成一种欺骗,所有的笑容里面都像是藏了一把刀 In this clip we'll talk about how to build trust in a relationship. And that's exactly what you do. You have to build trust. Trust has to be earned. I like to say when you first meet somebody you can give them the benefit of the doubt, but that's not trust yet. You have to go through time together and experience situations and find out if you can truly trust them. So that means when you first get into a relationship, don't reveal too much about yourself. Don't put your whole life out there on the table this person in the first meeting; you don't know if that's safe with them. Power is knowledge. Don't give yourself away.So if you really want to build trust in your relationship. You need to communicate. You need to talk to each other. You need to establish boundaries and guidelines of what you're comtable with. And as you go through things, if something is upsetting you, take the time and say “Hey, could we talk about this? I’m, I'm feeling a little insecure about this. I'm feeling a little bothered.” And if you can build that over time, that's genuine trust.The daffodil principle水仙花法则Several times my daughter had telephoned to say, Mother, you must come and see the daffodils bee they are over.女儿打来好几次电话跟我说:妈妈,水仙花凋落之前,你一定得来看看I wanted to go, but it was a two-hour drive from Laguna to Lake Arrowhead.我委实想去,只是从拉古纳到箭头湖得个小时的路程I will come next Tuesday, I eventually promised though a little reluctantly.女儿第三次来电,我勉强答应她说:我打算下星期二过去The rainy foggy Tuesday came, and I joined my lovely grandchild and Carolyn who then drove us onto a small gravel road after my long tedious journey.结果星期二一早就下起了雨,还有点凉意我已经承诺过女儿,便驱车前往Several minutes later, a small church came into my view.几分钟以后,我眼前出现了一个小教堂On the far side of the church, I saw a hand-lettered sign that said, Daffodil Garden.在教堂的对面,有一个手写的标牌:水仙花园We got out of the car, each taking one hand of the child.下了汽车,我和女儿一人一手拽着孩子,I followed Carolyn down the path.由女儿带路沿着这条狭窄的小道走着Then, we turned a corner of the path.转一个弯后,As I looked up, something caught me in gasp.我举目望去,不由得一惊Bee me lay the most glorious sight.眼前的景观瑰丽无比,It looked as though someone had taken a great vat of gold and poured it down over the mountain peak and slopes.就好似有人把一桶碎金撒满了山顶和山坡The flowers were planted in majestic, swirling patterns—great ribbons and swaths of deep orange, white, lemon yellow, salmon pink, saffron, and butter yellow.观其水仙栽植,有的如丝带数条,式样绝好,美丽壮观,摇曳生姿;有的像缎几匹,其色洁白、深橙、浅黄、橙红、橘黄、葱黄,一应俱全Each different-colored variety was planted as a group so that it swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique hue.由于颜色不同,品种各异的水仙分片种植,所以随风摇摆,流动起来宛若花河,独具色调There were five acres of flowers.这里整整有5英亩水仙花But who has done this? I asked Carolyn.这些水仙都是谁种的?我问卡罗琳It’s just one woman, Carolyn answered. She lives on the property. That’s her home.只是一个妇人卡罗琳答道,她就住在这,看那是她的房子Carolyn pointed to a well-kept A-frame house that looked small and modest in the midst of all that glory.卡罗琳指向一座A字构架的屋子,在周围灿烂辉煌景象的映衬之下,这座房子显得矮小而又简陋We walked up to the house. On the patio, we saw a poster.我们朝那间屋子走去,在门前的露台上看到一张海报,Answers to the Questions I Know You Are Asking was the headline.标题是:我知道你们要问什么,这就是The first answer was a simple one. 50,000 bulbs, it .第一个比较简单:5万茎The second answer was, One at a time, by one woman.第二个是:一次栽一茎,一名妇人所植,Two hands, two feet, and very little brain.用两只手,两条腿,还略动了点脑筋The third answer was, Began in 1958.第三个是:开始于1958年There it was, The Daffodil Principle.这就是水仙定律, me, that moment was a life-changing experience.对我来说,那一刻的经历使我对于生活有了新的认识I thought of this woman whom I had never met,who, more than ty years bee, had begun—one bulb at a time—to bring her vision of beauty and joy to an obscure mountain top.我想,这位素昧平生的妇人,早在0多年前就—一次一茎水仙—把自己对于美和快乐的理解与想象带给这座无名的小山之巅Still, just planting one bulb at a time, year after year, had changed the world.每次仅仅栽种一茎,年复一年,却改变了世界This unknown woman had ever changed the world in which she lived.这位无名的妇人永远改变了她所居住的世界She had created something of ineffable magnificence, beauty, and inspiration.她开创的事业雄伟壮观,美妙绝伦,而又鼓舞人心The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of the greatest principles of celebration.水仙花园给我们揭示伟大的礼赞法则之一That is, learning to move toward our goals and desires one step at a time—often just one baby-step at a time—and learning to love the doing, learning to use the accumulation of time.即每次只求一步,学着朝着目标努力—也许只是一小步—学着乐于这样做,学会积累时间,When we multiply tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily eft, we too will find we can accomplish magnificent things.利用日常琐碎的时间每天努力一点,我们就会发现自己同样能干成大事We can change the world.我们也可以改变世界It makes me sad in a way, I admitted to Carolyn.这多少使我有点难过我向卡罗琳坦承,What I might have accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal thirty-five or ty years ago and had worked away at it ‘one bulb at a time’ through all those years.如果35或者0年前,我也想到一个宏伟的计划,并且这些年来一次一茎地努力,想一想,Just think what I might have been able to achieve!我该会取得多大的成就啊My daughter summed up the message of the day in her usual direct way.Start tomorrow, she said.女儿以她惯常直率的方式总结今天所得的教益说:那么就从明天开始吧 5

Part 3. The Time Ball.Keywords. time ball, drop, time signals, tradition.Vocabulary. install, observatory, revive, sweep, viable, hoist,gravity, mechanism, aluminum, flavor, sponsor, Greenwich, Miami, Atlanta.A. Listen to some statements about the time ball, fill in the blankets with what you hear on the tape.The time ball was originally used as a maritime time-keeper.The Greenwich time ball is said to be the world first public time signal.The ball is automatically raised halfway up the mast at :55 pm to the top at :58 pm, and drops at 1:00pm.Around 0 public time balls are known or reported to have be installed around the world after that at Greenwich in 1833.The U.S Naval Observatory dropped the first time ball in the ed States in 18.Time balls were used in many cities around the U.S during the 19 century.At the turn of the th century, dozens of time balls were being dropped around the world.A few time balls are still ceremonially dropped around the world, ranging from New Zealand to the Old Royal Observatory in Greenwich.B. Listen to a news report about the lowering of the time ball, answer the questions with keywords.In this age of ultra-high technology, many places around the world will mark the start of the new year in an old fashioned way.They will revive an 19th century naval tradition by dropping time balls when 00 arrives. sites on 6 continents will observe a tradition best exemplified by the lowering of lighted time ball in New York city.As the new year sweeps around the world, beginning at the International Date Line, we are going to have the time balls dropping.Steven Dick is a historian at the U.S naval observatory, the institution that maintains the U.S master clock.Everyone is familiar with the time ball in New York Times Square, but they had a real function in the past.In the 19th century, these were visual time signals which were used to give the time.Mr Dick says the British Navy dropped the first time ball in Portsmouth, England in 189.The first U.S time ball fell in Washington in 18.This remained a viable signaling method through much of the 19th century.They were dropped well into the th century.At the turn of the century, 0 years ago, there were approximately dozen in the ed States that were still in use.Time balls normally fell at noon local time in the ed States, and 1:00 pm in Europe, the beginning of the fall marking the exact time.But this year would see them drop at midnight locally.The first time balls, about one and a half meters in diameter, were made of wood and leather and hoisted manually by rope to drop by gravity.Eventually in several instances, electrical motors or mechanisms using water or air pressure were employed.And in some time, materials changed.The Greenwich ball is now aluminum. this new year, some time balls have local flavor.;Miami will be raising an orange, I understand Atlanta will drop a peach.;Steven Dick said San Francisco is to join the event next year, when the U.S naval observatory again sponsors an international time ball drop to signal what he says is the real start of the millennium.C. Now listen to a faster presentation of the material, check your answers. 56

No Food, No Water不吃不喝Bev was a real estate agent in New York City. She usually left home about a.m. She never drank or ate anything until she returned home. ;You need energy. Eat some lunch,; her husband said. ;I cant eat anything after I leave the house. I dont carry a toothbrush or toothpaste,; she said. ;No problem. Put them into your purse,; he said. ;That extra weight,; she said. ;Every day I walk 30 blocks. I climb flights of stairs. My purse is so heavy. Besides, it full. I dont have room in my purse. Look.; He looked into her purse. It was full. He lifted it. It was heavy. ;Well, you should at least drink lots of water. Im sure all that walking makes you thirsty,; he said. ;I get thirsty, but I dont dare drink,; she said. ;It too hard to find a clean place to pee!;贝夫是纽约城的一名房地产经纪人她通常点才会离开家在她回家之前,她不吃也不喝她的丈夫对她说:“你需要能量吃午餐”她说:“出门以后我不能吃东西因为我不能带牙刷或牙膏”他说:“那没事,把她装进你的手提袋里”她说:“那会额外增加分量我每天走30个街区层楼梯我的手提包太重了还有,东西太多了看,我的包里没地方放了”他看了看她的包包里装满了东西他提了提非常重他说:“那你至少要多喝水走路会让你感到饥渴”她说:“我会感到口渴,但是我不敢喝找个干净地方解手都非常困难!”译文属原创,,不得转载 7

A Cat and a Dog一只猫和一只The black cat jumped up onto the chair. It looked down at the white dog. The dog was chewing on a bone. The cat jumped onto the dog. The dog kept chewing the bone. The cat played with the dog tail. The dog kept chewing the bone. The cat jumped back onto the chair. It started licking its paws. The dog stood up. It looked at the cat. It licked the cat fur. The cat licked the dog nose. The dog went back to its bone. A boy ran through the room. He was wearing a yellow shirt. He almost ran into the chair. The cat jumped off the chair. The cat jumped onto the sofa. The chair fell onto the floor next to the dog. The dog stopped chewing the bone. The dog chased the boy. The boy ran out to the street. He threw a stick. The dog chased the stick. The dog lay down. It chewed on the stick.一只黑色的猫跳到了椅子上它低头看着那只白色的那只在啃一根骨头猫跳到了的身上继续啃着骨头猫玩着的尾巴继续啃着骨头猫又跳回了椅子上它开始舔自己的脚爪站了起来它看着那只猫它舔了舔猫的毛那只猫舔了舔的鼻子又继续啃骨头去了一个男孩从屋子里跑过他穿着黄色的衬衣他差点撞到椅子上猫从椅子上跳了下来猫跳到了沙发上椅子倒在了附近的地上不再啃骨头了去追男孩了男孩跑到街上他扔了一根棍子去追棍子卧了下来它开始啃棍子了译文属原创,,不得转载 818

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